Dear soul,
If you find yourself tired of trying so hard to be enough, to be loved, to be understood ,take a breath. You don’t have to prove anything in this sacred space.
This space is for you ,the tender, tired parts of you that long to be seen, not for what you do, but for who you are .
There are moments when the ache of not being enough whispers louder than anything else. That quiet, heavy feeling that no matter how much you give, achieve, or love ,it never feels quite enough to be truly seen. So you spend your life trying to prove your worth. To earn love. To be chosen.
To be good enough for someone, for something, for life itself. You try to hold everything together, to be perfect, to deserve what your heart longs for.
But the truth is that longing was never about others. It was your soul calling you home.
This need to prove yourself doesn’t come from failure or weakness. It comes from the child within you , the one who once needed to hear:
I see you
I love you
You are perfect just the way you are
When nobody said those words to you , you learned to earn love through doing. You learned that success might bring safety, and that silence might keep the peace. You learned to become what the world wanted and in doing so, you slowly forgot who you were.
But that child still lives within you, still waiting for your presence, still longing to be held without conditions.
Healing begins when you stop chasing and start listening. When you pause long enough to feel what your soul has been whispering all along :’You were never meant to prove your worth , you were meant to remember it.‘
When you stop chasing worth and start listening to your heart, you remember you were never broken ,lost or not good enough, you were only waiting to be seen by your own love.
I am asking you gently now : Come back to yourself, softly. Give yourself the love, the acceptance, the attention you have been seeking from the world. Because the moment you turn inward, the moment you hold yourself with tenderness you stop needing to be chosen, seen and worthy.
You become the love you were always waiting for. Close your eyes. Place your hand on your heart. And whisper to your inner child:
I see you.
I love you.
I accept you.
You are perfect just the way you are.
Stay there for a while. Let those words melt into every part of you that once doubted its light.
This is how healing begins .Not by becoming someone new, but by finally coming home to the one you have always been.
May you remember, dear soul, that you were never too much and never not enough. That even in your stillness, you are becoming.
And that the love you’ve been searching for has always been waiting right within your own heart.
Affirmations for you beautiful Soul
I am enough, exactly as I am.
I release the need to prove my worth.
I am safe to be seen in my truth.
I honour the child within me with love and gentleness.
I am whole. I am love. I am home.
